Friday, July 31, 2009

Does study bring happiness or stress?

.....My mother warns me all the time whenever she sees me read book all day long.

(taken from http://bookworm0805.blogspot.com/2009/07/is-study-happiness-or-stress.html )

  1. It will brings me joy and happiness, if i am interested in.
  2. I will be anxious and stress, if my brain is just empty.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

"Be yourself--more--with skill."

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22. Look in the eyes of the ones you love when you are talking to them
27. Be patient.
41. Don’t let other people’s opinions shape who you are.
50. Accept the things you cannot change.
97. Talk less and listen more
96. Never live your life according to what is right for someone else.

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Tuesday, July 28, 2009

His head must be empty too

  • Headache I got headache. Last Saturday, I made 2 mistakes on T4 and till now I'm keeping thinking about what is the better plan i have should used.
  • Exam Scams High school students leave the exam room after their first day of exams at Boeung Trabek High School in Phnom Penh on Monday. Despite efforts by police and officials to crack down on cheating, students have reported employng a range of strategies - using bribes to Bluetooth - to get an edge over their peers. (taken from THE PHNOM PENH POST JULY 29, 2009)

  • His head must be empty too


    (China Daily) Updated:2005-07-25 13:48


      Little Bobby: I've got a stomachache.
      Aunt Tess: That's because you haven't eaten and your stomach is empty, so it hurts.
      Little Bobby: Now I know why Uncle Harry has headache all the time. His head must be empty too. http://english.sohu.com/20050725/n226437676.shtml

Monday, July 27, 2009

Headache

I got headache. Last Saturday, I made 2 mistakes on T4 and till now I'm keeping thinking about what is the better plan i have should used.

I should stop thinking of it; i have some new ideas now.

It's better to read Jokes


H to O
(China Daily) Updated:2005-07-26 13:29

  EACHER: What is the chemical formula for water?
  SARAH: "HIJKLMNO"!
  TEACHER: What are you talking about?
  SARAH: Yesterday you said its H to O!


Sooner or later
(China Daily) Updated:2005-07-22 13:35

  A thief with a long record was brought before the judge.
  Judge: Have you ever stolen things?
  Thief: Oh, now and then.
  Judge: And where have you stolen these things?
  Thief: Oh, here and there.
  Judge: Right. Lock him up, officer.
  Thief: Hey, when do I get out jail?
  Judge: Oh, sooner or later.

http://english.sohu.com/20050722/n226410390.shtml

Thursday, July 16, 2009

LovePoem

Regret flows from the depths of my soul
With the strength of a flood
I have held these gates shut for too long
And though tormenting, they should not be stopped.

The thought of your anguish
Even as I write to you now
Stops my heart cold
As well it should

What I see in front of me
Is a painting of our love
Its most thoughtful brushstrokes
Mottled by hurried abstraction and inattention

A person who had not seen this masterpiece created
Might think it to be refuse and pass it by unknowingly
Letting be obscured the deep beauty of its many scenes
By layers of the tarnish of mistreatment

But as the painter
I see beyond the dark smears
To recall the hours that I attended to the details
And wonder how I could let it become so discolored

The painting that took me my life to create
Has lost its divinity in my careless treatment
And even if I were to refine it
I fear you would always see it as it is today

So today I paint a new masterpiece
One inspired by the muse of respect
A work that you can love through our old age
One that you will look to each day for inspiration

This one will take some time
As I want my brushstrokes to be carefully placed
I need to move steadily to ensure that this time,
My art represents my dream

This is my opus
Don't judge me on my past works
As I have never before had so much skill and inspiration
And never before have I wanted to please you as I do today

With you and my children as my muse
I will paint for you a lifetime
A portrait of devotion and friendship
A panorama of passion and admiration

All I ask is that you gaze upon it with an open heart
And you shall unquestionably love me again

- Daryl R. Swensson

How to Know What Women Want | eHow.com

Tips & Warnings
Don't be pushing women like to have space also.
Stop acting as if you know what women need and want.
Every Woman is different.
Communicate this is so important in a relationship.
Patience is the key to any good partnership."

Friday, July 10, 2009

Steps to Better Communication in Meetings

Many discussions and meetings can feel like a waste of time. Here are four things you can do to ensure your meetings are fruitful:
  1. Prepare. Yes, it seems obvious, but too many people come to meetings unprepared. Be on time. Send important documents in advance and keep them concise.
  2. Think before speaking. So much time is wasted when people get off topic. Ask yourself before you speak, "Is this helpful, productive, and relevant to what we are trying to accomplish?"
  3. Make it two-way. If you're holding a meeting just to deliver news, you're better off sending a memo. Engage everyone and get new ideas by asking for differing opinions.
  4. Listen. It may be the norm these days, but looking at your BlackBerry during a meeting signals a lack of focus. If the meeting isn't worth listening to, then you might as well be back at your desk.

When to Keep Your Mouth Shut

by Marshall Goldsmith

One of the toughest lessons for managers to learn is that sometimes it's better to stay silent. But when? In this article, executive coach Marshall Goldsmith addresses a classic tendency he sees in brilliant, technically gifted people in positions of power-the desire to "add value" to the ideas of others. Building on the premise that execution is a function of the quality of the idea multiplied by the executor's commitment to making it work, Goldsmith cautions leaders to resist the urge to follow up their words of encouragement with questions like, "But wouldn't it be better if you added X, Y, or Z to it?" Instead, ask yourself whether your "added value" will make the idea's creator more-or less-committed to executing it. Realizing that your own need to show how smart you are can rob your team of its creative drive is a powerful step toward becoming a more effective leader

http://harvardbusiness.org/product/when-to-keep-your-mouth-shut/an/U0807E-PDF-ENG

Thursday, July 9, 2009